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Book Review: My Grandmother's Hands by Resmaa Menakem

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In My Grandmother's Hands, Resmaa Menakem presents a powerful exploration of trauma and its impact on racial dynamics in America. This thought-provoking read combines personal reflection with practical guidance, making it an essential resource for anyone seeking to understand the intersections of race, body, and healing.

Menakem’s central thesis revolves around the idea that trauma is not just an individual experience but a collective one, passed down through generations. He encourages readers to engage with their bodies as a means of processing and healing from trauma, and his insights are both profound and accessible.


One of the most valuable aspects of the book is Menakem’s five-step approach to healing. Here’s a brief overview of each step:

  1. Awareness: Menakem emphasizes the importance of becoming aware of our own bodies and the sensations we experience. This step involves recognizing how trauma manifests physically and emotionally, paving the way for deeper understanding.

  2. Grounding: This step focuses on developing a sense of stability and safety in the body. Menakem offers techniques for grounding ourselves, which can help mitigate feelings of overwhelm and anxiety, particularly when confronting difficult emotions related to race and trauma.

  3. Connection: Building connections with others is crucial for healing. Menakem discusses the significance of community and the relationships we cultivate, urging readers to seek supportive environments where healing can thrive.

  4. Compassion: Compassion—both for ourselves and others—is a recurring theme in the book. Menakem encourages readers to approach their own pain and the pain of others with empathy, fostering an environment conducive to healing.

  5. Engagement: Finally, Menakem stresses the importance of active engagement in the healing process. This involves not only personal work but also social action, as we strive to address systemic issues related to trauma and race.


My Grandmother's Hands is more than just a book; it’s a call to action for individuals and communities. Menakem’s writing is both gentle and powerful, inviting readers to reflect on their own experiences while providing tangible steps toward healing.

If you're looking for a book that challenges you to think critically about race, trauma, and healing, I highly recommend diving into My Grandmother's Hands. It’s a transformative read that offers hope and practical tools for anyone on a journey of personal and collective healing.


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